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Thursday, September 20, 2018

Should men wear makeup?

Yes, men should have the choice to wear makeup, I mean why not?

I guess some would say that I “care too much about looking my best”. It may be true, I stay in shape, eat pretty good, wear nice clothes, and on occasion I wear the ‘bling’ that says, I am feeling good tonight! Within the last year, I decided to act on a desire that I have had for years & years. I got a pedicure &had my toes PAINTED!!!!! Yes, it was great, my girlfriend went together & all I can say is “Why in the heck did I not do this sooner”? I wear flip/flops everywhere, and since then I have sported many colors. However, I do keep my feet covered at work & around my parents.
More recently, I wish my girlfriend’s suggestion & direction have begun experimenting & wearing makeup. , all very natural & subtle, but noticeable too Full makeup, foundation, shadow, liner, black mascara, & more often than not, a matte nude lipstick! I again say, why didn’t I do this sooner? I love it, I (again other than work & around my parents I am 45 btw, parents don’t need to know everything) And when I know that my face looks as good as I feel, & I have a great outfit on, my confidence skyrockets!! I am not portraying a woman, but I am just being ME, a straight man who loves makeup.
I know why, I didn’t do this long ago, because of fear of what others will say, it’s sad but I know that is the case. There is one way that would solve so many violent, angry, & destructive verbal confrontations, fights, and abuse, it will cost nothing if people would just mind their own business, and not make a point to tell others what they think or feel about what another person wears. I would never say to the obviously obese person or family at the table (next to me in a restaurant)”who, who, do you think you really need the desert too”? That would be wrong and cause a huge disturbance & id probably end up in jail for the night. But as a man wearing makeup & nail polish & someone says something, or even makes physical harm……this is part of the consequences of my choices! To the people/woman who say….NO, No way a man or men can start to wear makeup, I am not going to date a man who wears makeup!

First thing, even if our culture accepted this as a norm, not every man would wear makeup!! Were all different, That would be like me saying “ I will not date a woman who listens to country music”! OK, No big deal, tons of woman do listen to it, but tons more don’t. So what others listen to, that are not in my life, is none of my business any more than someone thinking it's their business what I put on MY face & toes.

However, that was my point of view, would you please share yours with us? <3
And don't forget we love you no matter what :3

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Genial, lo creo y hago.

                                                   



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